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1. What "real" bodies look like. If you've never been to a kink party or a BDSM dungeon, I've got news for you. You see a lot of flesh. People wear sexy and revealing clothing or no clothing at all. People have sex where you can watch. There are boobs and butts and dicks. Some belong to your lovers and friends and others belong to strangers. And wh...

1. Drunk sex Early in a relationship, it's typical to get tipsy and/or flat-out wasted before getting naked together. Alcohol eases our inhibitions and makes the process of learning someone else's body slightly less intimidating. If booze helps you figure out how to turn your partner on and get them off, so be it! 2. Hungover sex Whether you were b...

So, you finally realized everything you knew about being a swinger was a complete lie. You're welcome. And maybe after reading that story, you and your partner were like: "Well, since it's not all old people with robes, watching you with somebody else might be kind of exciting..." Or maybe not. But either way, if you're even remotely considering ge...

So, you're in a steady relationship and everything is going great, but you're starting to fixate on the idea of a threesome and aren't sure how to ask your girl? Fret not, homies. Every man on Earth has desired multiple partners in bed. It's hardly taboo anymore. In all honesty, women have those same exact fantasies, but we're not as quick to act o...

Exactly a year ago, my three-year relationship ended, I moved into a new apartment, I was picking up freelancing for the first time, and I had just booked a flight to Europe. My funds were low and my goals were high. I felt empowered and free. However, my bank account told me otherwise and hindered my ability to properly begin my new, single life. ...

1. You can never have enough lube . "There's this myth that lube is some kind of crutch to lean on; that if you need it during sex, you're not doing it right. That's totally false. Everyone can benefit from lube. It reduces friction during sex, and while some friction can be pleasurable, too much can lead to the equivalent of rug burn inside your b...

1. It's a great way to hit the G-spot. Doggy-style sex is perfect for deep penetration that will hit the G-spot, so it's great for women who like it deep and basically any guy ever. And although manuals as old as the Kama Sutra and even relatively recent guides recommend it, some studies do dispute the idea of a g-spot. Still, it's a great way to a...

As a mom with three kids under the age of 10, I feel like the word "no" has become my default answer to everything , whether to my kids (no , you can't have candy for breakfast!) or to myself ( no, that bikini is not for you) or to my husband ( no , not tonight, honey — I'm too tired, I have to get up too early, I have too much work to do...) — no,...

What makes sex great? Well, that can be a bit different for everyone. One person's "Yum!" can be another person's "Yuck!" However, there are things that definitely mean you are having great sex. I've put together this list of 6 sure fire signs that the sex you are having is off the charts. Sign #1 - You Can Ask for What You Want Sometimes you ...

If you are a newbie going to a swingers club or a meet-up for the first time, you may be wondering what type of questions the other couples that you meet will ask you. Regardless of what you end up talking about with that couple you meet, you can expect to get asked at least a few of these questions. 1. What are you into? The question one couple as...

Threesomes are one of those sex acts that are either a great idea or a horrible idea depending on the couple. If you have a threesome before you're ready, you will probably have to deal with a lot of relationship problems that wouldn't have existed if you just stayed as a dynamic duo. On the other hand, threesomes are incredibly hot when you're rea...

Having sex with other couples can be really hot IF you're all on the same page. The swing lifestyle is nothing new. The concept of swingers and swinging has been around for years. The only difference is that people have started talking about it more openly. If you and your honey would like to get a little kinky and experiment with this sexual adven...

No matter what you call it — an open relationship, swinging, polyamory — one thing is definitely certain: Non-monogamous relationships are a very complex subject and no two couples are the same. But regardless of the specifics of the arrangement, communication and consent are vital, and it's important to discuss your limits , and to know your partn...

Truth: There's nothing better than the honeymoon phase of a relationship. Everything is new. It's all a great, mysterious adventure. Every joke he tells is adorable. The way she cuts her chicken wings with a knife and fork is just so damn precious. No one goes to the bathroom. Ever. It's just a f***ing dream... ...until it's not. Six months in his ...

Knowing how to make a guy happy in bed is important. As a couple, you want to be sure you're pleasing each other right. So what do guys like in bed? You should always be striving to please your man sexually just as he should be doing the same for you. But sometimes that's not easy. This is especially true if he's not really the talkative time. It'l...

In this day and age, it amazes me that women are still shamed for being sexual beings. Um, hello?! We're human! We have desires and fantasies and needs, damn it, just like men! So how is it that we're living in a society where women have fought for the right to vote, for equality in the workplace, and for the freedom of choice when it comes to our ...

You've probably heard that variety is the spice of life. Well, that doesn't just apply to food and weekend excursions; it also applies to sex. Because let's face it, pumping away at the same repetitive missionary moves can dampen the flame of passion. To keep things hot and heavy, couples need to keep things interesting. So forget plain vanilla - s...

Facts about sex toys...well, here's one for you: The sex toy industry is worth about $15 billion per year worldwide. That's a lot of dildos, people. But while statistics show that more than half of Americans have used a sex toy and you can now find them in many drugstores, pleasure products still aren't quite mainstream. Depending on your audience,...

How long can you stay naked without feeling uncomfortable? Most of us are not comfortable with our own bodies and thus, do not like sleeping naked. But it is a scientifically proven fact that sleeping naked has its benefits. If you are sleeping without clothes, you are bound to have better sleep and lower levels of stress. Here are 7 amazing benefi...

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