How to Talk Dirty to a Woman: Arouse Her without Creeping Her Out

Good dirty talk. This is the most effective type, yet it is also the one most difficult to pull off. In order to talk dirty with favorable effects, you need to take it slow, read the mood, and adjust your exchanges according to the way she reacts to your dirty talk. It's that hard. We did mention that talking dirty is an art, didn't we?

How to talk dirty to a woman – The basic guidelines

#1 Own your words. Say it like you mean it. Or better yet, say it like how you would say it. As mentioned, an attempt at talking dirty fails if done out of character.
If you're going to ask her if she likes to get touched in someplace, say it confidently and convincingly in your best way possible. If sexually ravenous and not the usual naughty is your game, add that flavor to your dirty talk. Not only you would say it easily, but it would be consistent to your character.

#2 Don't overact. Adding unnecessary moans, groans, growls, and grunts can spoil the dirty talk prematurely. So keep it natural in its delivery. Add a little idiosyncratic sexy flair to it at some point, but doing that stuff at all times makes you sound like you're only performing.

#3 Lay in some groundwork. Make her feel comfortable. Dirty talk doesn't usually happen at the first line, the best and most enjoyable ones start with normal and innocent conversation. It won't hurt to start by asking her how she is, what she's wearing, or when was the last time she had sex.
Well, maybe not the last one, but the idea is not to come in the scene guns blazing. Remember, talking dirty is foreplay: you need to take it slow.

#4 Do some research. What does she like? What are her fantasies? Does she like it aggressive or gentle? These are the important questions you need to ask yourself in order to get information that structures your naughty conversation.
So, how are you going to get these? Get creative. There are a lot of sources for what she likes: her social media profile, previous sexual encounters, the erotica she consumes, or you could ask her straight up.

#5 Start with questions. Starting dirty talk with a question is usually the best way to get it going smoothly, especially if you're a beginner.
First, there is a sexy quality to asking a girl naughty questions. It shows her that you are interested in her naughtier side and feeds on her imagination as well. Second, asking questions is a good way to snatch tiny bits of information that will help you steer the direction of the conversation.

#6 Play into her fantasies. Once you've got sufficient information about her kinks and sexual tastes, it is time to use this information to weave a filthy narrative where the ending is that you're both naked and wrapped around each other.
At this part, you need to muster a little bit of storytelling and direction in order to delve further into her dirtiest fantasies. Who knows, your sexy Q & A may reveal other dirty secrets that she's keeping. \

#7 Add other stimuli to dirty talk. Women are creatures of imagination, so if you want to know how to talk dirty to a woman the right way, keeping this in mind is the best way to turn her on into a raging sexual fire.
So what else can you do to make her imagination more vivid? Add sensory stimuli to your dirty talk. Since it's your mouth doing all the talking, both your hands are free to grasp a vibrator, dildo, or a piece of silk cord to run through an unsuspecting part of her body as you whisper filthy stuff in her ear. Or, something that all girls fall for, punctuate your whispers with a playful nibble of her earlobes.

#8 Be mindful of her responses. Even the kinkiest of girls have a limit too. So try to draw a line first and then try if you can go further. If she hesitates to respond or responds negatively, then revert back to a safe zone where she's more comfortable. It never hurts to apologize too.

#9 Where to dirty talk? Based on difficulty level, it is more easy to talk dirty via chat or text since you'll have more time to think your words through before sending it. On the other hand, doing it in person is more challenging and requires you to be in character most of the time.
However, doing it face to face has the benefit of the immediate chance for things to escalate sexually. Simply said, it doesn't matter. Choose wherever you're most comfortable.

#10 Whisper it near her ear. When talking dirty, nothing beats slamming it in the home court. Whispering it really soft and slow surely makes her hairs and nipples prickle with anticipation.

Knowing how to talk dirty to a woman requires a lot of work just like any form of foreplay. It requires you to be gentle and not overly aggressive. It also requires a little bit of creativity. But most importantly, one must be sensitive to her fantasies and her desires.

Source: lovepanky.com/PAUL MANGAY