People who have had threesomes love to brag about it more than any other sexual experience. Having more than one partner at a time – especially when they're both pleasing you – is one of the ultimate taboos. But, what's the reality behind this fantasy? I can happily say I've kicked it off my bucket list, and can give you some tips to make sure your...

"I think I masturbate more when I'm stressed." "You masturbate?" This conversation I had with a male friend embodies the surprise a lot of people express when they find out I not only masturbate but also admit it unabashedly. Because even though this friend and I talked about sex all the time and he knew I was sexually active in my relationships, t...

This year, Pornhub celebrated its tenth birthday. To commemorate the occasion, they released some fascinating data on trends in users' viewing habits. Among other things, over 10 million videos have been posted on the site to date. Also, Pornhub now receives 75 million (!) visitors per day, and the average user spends about 10 minutes there per vis...

We've been swingers, or "in the swing lifestyle," as it's called, for six years. I'm a middle-aged, heterosexual female in a long-term, committed relationship with a middle-aged, heterosexual male. Yes, we are in a committed relationship and openly enjoying sex with people outside of our relationship. And, no, there's no jealousy or drama. The diff...

Several months ago I decided, at the is-it-too-late age of 61, to step away from the idea of finding that one perfect mate who could satisfy all my dreams, give me everything I needed, and be by my side for the rest of time. In other words, I've abandoned the fairy tale and am opting for honest and open relationships. I'm having a blast. I'm dating...

In her article Why We Should All Be Talking About Sex A Lot More Often, sex educator Kate McCombs interviewed other sex educators to get their take on the importance of talking about sex. Linda Kirkman's response reflects the reasons I think encouraging older women to talk about sex is important: "to normalize talking about sex and sexuality, to re...